Some things have remained constant as I envisioned them being over time
The freshness of the loss
The tears of anguish cried aloud to the depths of my soul
The loneliness of life without you and the longing for your physical presence
The missing you and missing the part of me that will never be the same, never be whole, never be truly happy
Some things have changed to dramatically I couldn’t have ever imagined
The passing of dear relationships
The distance of the loss of you to my everyday life
The lessening of tears
The busyness that lets me forget
The tiny moments when there is joy and everything is alright
Seeing you in my grandchildren, your nieces and nephews, that never had a chance to know you in your body
How you live on in all of us, the stories, the memories ~the Joy ~ the Peace, ~the Love~ the Connection
The Legacy that keeps your Spirit Alive in this world and all in those that honor you by living it
So now my Prayer for us that continue this journey is ~
~ to go on traversing this dichotomous landscape between life of the living and the realm of death
~ to process the ongoing changes that develop in our minds
~ to release to what the present moment brings
~to live the legacy in all of our actions
~and to always keep our hearts open to love
Prayer for the loved one (TCF)
Dear Mother and Father of the Universe
Help our loved ones who have left their bodies too soon
Comfort them in the light of Love
Their experience is unknown to us now
But our love is forever true
Let them know of our love and hear our hearts desire,
even through anguished tears,
Although our senses limit our contact,
we wish to be with them every day,
That our arms ache to hold them
This is our earthly experience
And although it is very real
We do not want it to hinder them from doing what their path now calls
Make them know we wish them all good
Mother Universe
Wrap our loved ones in your arms now
Let them feel the same love we shared here on earth
Father Universe
Give our loved ones your gentle strength
Play with them until they are overjoyed with laughter
Great Mother of compassion
Great Father of Strength
Bless us also in this day
Bless us as we try again and again on this his earthly plane
Bless our sorrow
Comfort our pain
Strengthen our resolve to continue each day
Father and Mother universe
Hold us individually and together in your love and compassion
until we are reunited and throughout eternity
©Elene Bratton 2006